12 people shared their biggest turnoffs and you'll want to take notes for your next date

There's nothing worse than getting hot and heavy with someone for the first time and being in constant fear of ruining the moment. Everyone is different, so everyone's going to have different turn-offs and turn-ons in the bedroom. However, out of curiosity and obligation to inform, we did some digging to see what the people of Reddit had to say about their biggest turn-offs.

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The available threads to sift through are endless, and within them are a lot of weirdly-specific answers. But you can rest assured that many others felt similarly, and there was a general consensus for most when it came to what kills their vibe when they're getting it on. Here are some of the most commonly mentioned turn-offs we found.

When someone has bad breath.

Brush your teeth. A. and I. Kruk/Shutterstock

"You might be oozing with hotness but the moment I smell your breath, I just lose interest" - Redditor Entengkabwisote

When a person smokes.

It's not cute. Sean Gallup/Getty Images

When the other person is just not that into it.

If your partner doesn't seem to want to kiss you, that's not a great sign. Fizkes/Shutterstock

"Lack of enthusiasm." - Redditor MonsieurGrimm

When there is a lack of respect for boundaries.

This is not only a turn-off, it's dangerous. Shutterstock

"I once slept with this guy and he must have asked me half a dozen times if I was sure I didn't want to try it without a condom. I also got more than a few ‘You sure you don't wanna tape this?' inquiries from that one. Blech." - anonymous Redditor

When a person's fingernails need trimming.

Keep them clipped. Yuriko Nakao/Reuters

"Don't see the appeal and quite frankly I just find them disgusting." - Redditor Boosty-McBoostFace

When someone has poor hygiene

Showers aren't optional. Pexels

"Bad hygiene is the biggest turnoff of all. Soap, scape, smell good." - anonymous Redditor

When someone can't get a word in.

Listening is paramount. Shutterstock/Dmitry A

Of course, when someone's not the best kisser.

Standard. Uriel Sinai/Getty Images

"Bad kissing — totally ruins it before the fun even begins," - anonymous Redditor

When someone judges what you eat.

Let everyone order what they want. NBC

When someone is rude to the waiter.

Just don't. Shutterstock

When someone can't take a compliment.

Just say thank you. ArtemZ/Shutterstock

When someone has more on their mind.

Where's the fire? Olena Hromova/Shutterstock

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